i am so annoyed with my mother right now, i could scream.

she called me to tell me that her therapist told her the crash last week was sabotage. are you kidding me? then she goes off on how she doesn't think i should go because she is afraid that something is going to happen to me if i do. so, i ask you this. do i listen to my mother's instinct and not go? or do i go and feel guilty?