i've gotten sucked in to "hooking up" on abc. it chronicles the online dating experience of several women in new york.

in the beginning it was kind of a joke to watch it - but to me, it's interesting. maybe because i've done the online dating thing, or maybe it's because i have nothing better to do at 8pm on a thursday night.

one thing that really struck me is the amount of time these girls wait (or don't) to have sex with someone. which made me think...when is the appropriate time to sleep with someone?

then of course, i started thinking about my dating experiences. i don't think there were many guys i kissed on the first date, let alone had sex with. maybe this is too personal, but i am totally curious.

on a totally unrelated note, i am in love with john mayer, again.